{"id":1213,"date":"2022-01-13T09:49:06","date_gmt":"2022-01-13T08:49:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lonealler.dk\/?p=1213"},"modified":"2022-01-14T06:01:45","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T05:01:45","slug":"im-with-her","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lonealler.dk\/?p=1213&lang=en","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m with her!!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Warning: this is personal!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Wondering what\u2019s going on in this photo? It\u2019s my daughter Emma wearing a PhD-hat, creatively constructed to her by co-workers at <a href=\"https:\/\/plen.ku.dk\/english\/\">Department of Plant and Environmental Science<\/a>, in celebration of her completing her thesis on epigenetics and heritable defense mechanisms in plants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By her side Jonathan, my son and her older brother. On her arm Thea, her 1-year old daughter, the adorable youngest of my four grandchildren. As you can imagine, my joy was reaching spiritual levels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not only for Emma\u2019s academic achievement, which in itself is truly important, a milestone in her career and a significant contribution to science.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But for the work ethic and style of her as well as her brother: building a family and a home, raising 4 kids in total with amazing results (no, I\u2019m not biased at all &#x1f60a;) AND achieving personal growth, pursuing ambition and dreams, balancing Covid (argh!) and even \u2013 in Jonathans case \u2013 dealing with a nasty accident. They both have careers in industries known to consume every waking hour, science and retail; but they know their values and what\u2019s important in life. This is the greatest achievement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">An aside: I was a 21-year old mother, and negative comments were frequent, acidy and unhelpful, attempting one thing only: to drive shame. You couldn\u2019t imagine the crap I had to take, primarily from elder women. I only met Madeleine Albright later in life, but at the time I could have used her quote about the place in hell reserved for women not helping other women!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When the PhD-hat (with unspoken functionality, but it has a handle on one side?) was awarded to Emma yesterday my heart was singing &#8211; about everything, really! The choices I made, all the various coincidences, paths followed and not followed; here we are, and I am proud of my kids and HAPPY about life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2022, out for you!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Warning: this is personal! Wondering what\u2019s going on in this photo? It\u2019s my daughter Emma wearing a PhD-hat, creatively constructed to her by co-workers at Department of Plant and Environmental Science, in celebration of her completing her thesis on epigenetics and heritable defense mechanisms in plants. 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